Wednesday, September 25, 2013

9-13-15-16-2013 Winding down the trip, home in Texas

9-14-2013 Santa Fe to Texas
It rained all night after arriving in Santa Fe. Since the storms were still rumbling around, we decided to stay put and spent the day Saturday resting and working on the blog. 
We did accomplish a few things but did not achieve what we had set out to do that day. There is always tomorrow.

9-15-2013 Our First and Last
We got a late start on Sunday but knew that we would be under Texas skies that night. We were planning to travel about 300 miles that day but ended up piling up over 440 before we came to rest in a picnic area for our Last night on the road and our First night back in Texas.
First we were heading to Plainview, then to Lubbock, but could not find the RV Park, so continued on. Now Texas is big with lots of wide open spaces and not many RV parks in between when you’re out in west Texas.

We settled in at a road side park just before sunset.  We had a beautiful view of the sunset (which by far is the best part of the day for us) from our elevated parking spot.  Quite frankly, we had not had too many opportunities to see many sunsets on this trip; we were either deep in a mountain valley or the sun never set.  The park was not situated right on the road so the noise for the highway was not too bad.
We toasted our return of Texas and reflected back on the many days that we had been away.  It was a bitter sweet moment for us, we have really enjoyed our time together and the many wonderful site and experiences that we had encountered.  Being away from our family and friends and our normal surroundings was at times very difficult.  You knew that you could not be there to help if needed, so the feeling of helplessness was something that you had to work through.

To smell the sweet Texas air (when we were not next to a feed lot) and see the open prairies, Longhorns grazing in the field, wind generators and oil pumps bobbing up and down, we knew that our journey would soon be over.
After a few drinks and a good supper we settled in for the night.  As we laid our heads upon our pillows and gazed out the window, we could see the beautiful starlit sky and the constellation Orion.  We heard the sounds of the coyotes howling, and said a few prayers thanking God for our safe return to our home land.


9-16-2013 Our final day on the road
We had just over 200 miles to travel to the house and we were not going to set the world on fire to get there.  Bob decided he needed a haircut and we began gathering up a few things we had stuffed throughout the RV.  We pulled out the clippers and trimmed up Bob’s hair right there on the side the road. I believe that Sharon could have hung out a sign open for business and made some gas money cutting hair. We had several good old Texas boys honking the horn as they passed by.

When we started this trip 113 days ago, we decided to take mostly back roads and avoid the interstate highways.  In fact, we traveled less than 1000 miles on interstate highways. We really enjoyed the sites and many little towns that we passed through. You get to see so much more as you travel.  We arrived at home 7 minutes after the time we had departed 113 days earlier. When we parked the RV in the driveway, we had driven 10,402 miles and had spent over 275 hours on the road driving. We used 1500 gallons of gas, 2 oil changes and came home on the same set of tires on both vehicles. No flat tires. The windshields on both vehicle are chipped and cracked and several chips in the paint. Oh, but what memories.

We've decided we were going to ease back into our home life and not get in a rush to get the RV unpacked and ready to put away.  After being on the road for that long of period of time we have a different view on the world, as well as the hustle and bustle we were use to. After all, we lived quite comfortable in a 33 ft RV that provided us with all we needed. (We did miss the washer and dryer.)  But, do we really need all the other “stuff” that we had accumulated over the years? There are so many “things” to take care of and to maintain.  Quite frankly, it was a little scary returning home and very overwhelming.

While we were off on our journey we had several repairs done on the house, windows replaced, some interior and exterior painting.  You always have these expectations of what should be accomplished and how everything would be just so.  I had cautioned Sharon to set the bar a little lower and be happy with a 80 to 90 percent satisfaction rating, knowing that things would be taken care of differently when we were not there.  We were pleasantly surprised that the lawn was green, plants still alive and the pool full of water.  The doors were locked and the furniture was still is the same place as when we left it.  All in all 90 percent would be a good number.

This trip would not have been successful had a lot of other people not picked up the slack while we were gone.  Sharon’s mom handled all the mail and paid the bills, sometimes twice but they were paid.  We still had all the essentials we needed lights, air conditioning (a mere 97 degrees when we arrived home), water and nothing had been repossessed.  Scotty had become an expert on proper pool care and Elizabeth would stop occasionally and give us a run down on the condition of the house.  Amber kept the house cleaner scheduled and working as well as handling Scott’s business needs.  Our lawn care guy showed up every week and the lawn looked kept.

We drove our insurance gal crazy (Debbie Hughes) with a variety of challenges with house issues, car accidents and a few business concerns.  She was a trooper and we really appreciate all that she did for us.
We had several personal issues we had to handle while on the road such as selling a building, investment challenges after selling the building and personal law suits that took a cadre of attorneys to figure out.  But in the end, it all worked out and we were able to complete our adventure of a life time or two.

We really enjoyed doing the blog and taking pictures to record our memories and share with our friends. We had nearly 4,000 hits on the blog from many counties.  Those who visited the blog faithfully, we really enjoyed putting it together.  Between the 2 of us we took over 7,000 pictures.  Not all of them were keepers but that’s a lot of used up digits.  Our plans are to make a calendar and use the pictures to remind us of the great times and wonderful things we saw. We will be sending them out to our friends and families.

There were times we noted our concerns and displeasure with circumstances, world events and how things are viewed and exploited.  Thanks for listening.  We come home with much more appreciation for life and the real pursuit of happiness.  We are truly thankful for each other and the time that we had just being us. We realize that it takes two parts to make to one.  We have been truly blessed and appreciate what we have achieved together and individually.  You do not spend 113 days in a 33 ft RV with someone you don’t really love.

We look forward to spending time with our grandchildren.  Emorie has grown up so much while we were gone and Baby Relyea is due in November.  We look forward to our role as grandparents and will keep the family legacy alive and well.  They are the future.  We cannot truly insulate them from all that lies ahead, but maybe we can help them avoid the pitfalls that will delay them from achieving their goals and living their dreams.

We realize that the sunsets we will see in the future will not outnumber the ones we have already seen, but the ones we will see will be much more meaningful now that we know how to really enjoy them.

In order to predict your future you must first invent it!

Sometimes you just got to step out there and do it. We did!
      
 






  

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